“Acceptance of Failure” is the only way to make your next success note in life’s harmony.

Is that much easy, to accept? then why lots of people in depression if they accept their mistakes moving forward toward success. No, it’s not.

Let’s find the reason why the brain is not accepting it

Hmmm “What is the reason behind this”?

Reason can be identified using the established and recognized steps.
Let’s apply the universal strategy for finding the answers, introspect the situation. When we say that I am not admitting or you are not admitting, it is the brain that takes a choice on behalf of us.

Our brain has two paths now, Should I accept? or I shouldn’t accept it?

A perfect state of dilemma, How can we resolve this dilemma? Analyse the choices which we have and apply the method to it.

The brain is taking a decision by applying the intelligence which it has acquired through the lifetime from practice and behavior. The behavior which practiced can create two different intelligence in your brain.

Entity theory of intelligence and the Incremental Theory of intelligence

These two intelligence are important agents that will act as a deciding factor at the time of facing failure.

Let’s assume that two humans are taking an exam with two different intelligence. They are trying to give an answer to a difficult problem. As a result, both failed.

Brain with entity theory based intelligence will express negativity by blaming himself that “I am not smart enough”, the other brain expresses its response in a more optimistic way like “I have not tried enough”.

The first category’s negativity towards approach will trigger his EGO, which in turn, creates a huge barrier in the mind for learning the mistake and blocks the way to move forward. Later will create an optimistic environment and it will try to learn the mistakes and will fill the gap to move forward,which can easily accept the mistake which led to the failure.

Now we found out how and why the brain shows the response to a failure in two distinct ways. If your goal is to make your life toward beautiful harmony please make your brain practice and improve the “Incremental Theory of intelligence”.

Look for sunshine in the dark sky.

If you want your brain to have Incremental intelligence, it should “Begin with Acceptance”. Incremental intelligence and Acceptance are mutually connected.

By practicing this process, you can train your brain to take the decision in every state of dilemma.

Finding the reason for your failure will take you to the next note of your life’s harmony, fixing the known mistakes will turn your note into
“a success and most stunning piece of harmony”.

why did I choose to write about the handling of failure over other things of human behaviour? I will tell you all about this in my next write up on this subject.