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Practice Failure !!!

| Umadevi Dhanasekaran

Why we need to discuss “Acceptance of failure”?

We, humans, have lots of emotions and expressions within us why Acceptance takes more important to have a talk around it?

We are emotionally driven beings, it is our actions that will decide our fate or journey.

Our actions are based on our choices which we take, choices are based on the thoughts around the situation. To have a clear thought on a situation, we should accept our present situation. If we are successful we will be accepting it very gracefully meanwhile, if we get a failure!! it is not easy to take it. 

We should Practice Failure!!!!

Most Millennials would be a parent now, As a parent, it is our responsibility to train our kids to have an optimistic mindset. Kids should be capable of handling both success and failure. They should have denial in their life, if we are giving them whatever they are asking then they will be expecting the same from the open world. When they get a first denial or failure they don’t know how to handle them. Those failures turn up into their disappointment and their disappointment will make them take very serious actions.

So teaching them to accept their failure is the first step in shaping their lives for their future.

So teaching them to accept their failure is the first step in shaping their lives for their future.

Not just kids even we have a lot of concerns in acceptance.
Even We can’t wait in a pedestrian signal for 2 – 3 seconds more after we see a green signal. If someone passed our vehicle on a road we can’t accept that. These are the small things which we are doing in our day to day life, let’s make a difference. Accept it and act upon it.

Be the change....

Make a difference !!!! Accept the failure!!!!! Beautify the life

Facts which we need to know,

In India, about 46,000 suicides occurred each in 15–29 and 30–44 age groups in 2012 – or about 34% each of all suicides
https://www.fairobserver.com/region/central_south_asia/india-student-suicides-mental-health-south-asia-news-75495/
https://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/india/37-of-women-committing-suicide-in-the-world-are-indians-indian-men-account-for-24-of-cases/articleshow/65790506.cms

In all the above cases, if they would have approached their own problems in a systematic way with a strong mindset things would have taken in a different course.

Thanks, everyone for reading my article about the Acceptance of failure. Please share your thoughts on this article about our lives.

Yay!!!! Here i have failed again :)

| Umadevi Dhanasekaran 
Did the title of this post lead you here to read this writeup? if it is yes, 
then we have a serious issue in understanding and being an optimist

The toughest part of every human being is Acceptance and Letting it go.

What? come on i have did that tooooo many times.
courtesy tenor

Yes, I can listen to your thoughts that is true. Most people think that they can do this very easily.

But the things which you have in your mind and which I am about to tell both are the exact opposite. We will be very happy to let go of the things which we don’t need seriously and we will accept the notions very happy if the result is in the way as we expected.

But the opposite of that will be very tough for many peoples and for few peoples it is totally impossible

courtesy tenor

Time presents you with various events in your life. It depends upon the actions which we use in the given point, Success and Failure are a 50-50% possibility of our life.

The possibility of success always will not be on our side. Life is like a harmony in which time presents lots of possibilities for us. Success and Failure both will be there in the time, constantly we cannot keep only either success or failure in our harmony that will be boring. To make that harmony into a masterpiece, we should order both “Failure and Success” in a proper way.

We would have heard many people saying that they are very much depressed because of failure in an exam or I lost in the game. Depression is a big problem that happens to any human being.

But what brings that depression? Is it the failure which we had,

No!!! if we do perfect introspection on our selves it will be certain that unacceptance of the failure brings you the depression. So if the goal is to make a masterpiece of harmony "accept the failure".

Creating life as appealing as harmony is in our hands. Let's accept the failure and enhance the beauty of our days.