Hmmm!!! Nature, yeah I knew it. It is the one which created us, birds, animals, plants and many things which we know and lots of things which we yet to know or explore or ignored.
So co-existing/ co-living with all these things can be considered as living with nature.
Co-existing? is it means just living within our boundary? No, not at all, it should be “Live and Let Live”. You can live your life and at the same time, we should let the other beings to live.
Help ourselves and help other beings also, like how we water our plants and protecting the endangered animals from being extinct.
We, humans, have the capability to both protect and exploit nature. We are the beings who live at the top of the food chain and also having a very-higher degree thought process.
Since we are provided with unlimited power we are doing lots and lots of things in our very little life span. Out of that, we are doing most of the things which are impacting our nature and also creating disturbance for our co-existence.
In our nature’s home, we are the eldest of our mother. It is our responsibility to protect our home and our family.
But are we doing this? Let us find that with our own systematic approach.
We, humans, have lots of emotions and expressions within us why Acceptance takes more important to have a talk around it?
We are emotionally driven beings, it is our actions that will decide our fate or journey.
Our actions are based on our choices which we take, choices are based on the thoughts around the situation. To have a clear thought on a situation, we should accept our present situation. If we are successful we will be accepting it very gracefully meanwhile, if we get a failure!! it is not easy to take it.
We should Practice Failure!!!!
Most Millennials would be a parent now, As a parent, it is our responsibility to train our kids to have an optimistic mindset. Kids should be capable of handling both success and failure. They should have denial in their life, if we are giving them whatever they are asking then they will be expecting the same from the open world. When they get a first denial or failure they don’t know how to handle them. Those failures turn up into their disappointment and their disappointment will make them take very serious actions.
So teaching them to accept their failure is the first step in shaping their lives for their future.
So teaching them to accept their failure is the first step in shaping their lives for their future.
Not just kids even we have a lot of concerns in acceptance. Even We can’t wait in a pedestrian signal for 2 – 3 seconds more after we see a green signal. If someone passed our vehicle on a road we can’t accept that. These are the small things which we are doing in our day to day life, let’s make a difference. Accept it and act upon it.
Be the change....
Make a difference !!!! Accept the failure!!!!! Beautify the life
In all the above cases, if they would have approached their own problems in a systematic way with a strong mindset things would have taken in a different course.
Thanks, everyone for reading my article about the Acceptance of failure. Please share your thoughts on this article about our lives.
“Acceptance of Failure” is the only way to make your next success note in life’s harmony.
Is that much easy, to accept? then why lots of people in depression if they accept their mistakes moving forward toward success. No, it’s not.
Let’s find the reason why the brain is not accepting it
Hmmm “What is the reason behind this”?
Reason can be identified using the established and recognized steps. Let’s apply the universal strategy for finding the answers, introspect the situation. When we say that I am not admitting or you are not admitting, it is the brain that takes a choice on behalf of us.
Our brain has two paths now, Should I accept? or I shouldn’t accept it?
A perfect state of dilemma, How can we resolve this dilemma? Analyse the choices which we have and apply the method to it.
The brain is taking a decision by applying the intelligence which it has acquired through the lifetime from practice and behavior. The behavior which practiced can create two different intelligence in your brain.
Entity theory of intelligence and the Incremental Theory of intelligence
These two intelligence are important agents that will act as a deciding factor at the time of facing failure.
Let’s assume that two humans are taking an exam with two different intelligence. They are trying to give an answer to a difficult problem. As a result, both failed.
Brain with entity theory based intelligence will express negativity by blaming himself that “I am not smart enough”, the other brain expresses its response in a more optimistic way like “I have not tried enough”.
The first category’s negativity towards approach will trigger his EGO, which in turn, creates a huge barrier in the mind for learning the mistake and blocks the way to move forward. Later will create an optimistic environment and it will try to learn the mistakes and will fill the gap to move forward,which can easily accept the mistake which led to the failure.
Now we found out how and why the brain shows the response to a failure in two distinct ways. If your goal is to make your life toward beautiful harmony please make your brain practice and improve the “Incremental Theory of intelligence”.
Look for sunshine in the dark sky.
If you want your brain to have Incremental intelligence, it should “Begin with Acceptance”. Incremental intelligence and Acceptance are mutually connected.
By practicing this process, you can train your brain to take the decision in every state of dilemma.
Finding the reason for your failure will take you to the next note of your life’s harmony, fixing the known mistakes will turn your note into “a success and most stunning piece of harmony”.
why did I choose to write about the handling of failure over other things of human behaviour? I will tell you all about this in my next write up on this subject.
Did the title of this post lead you here to read this writeup? if it is yes, then we have a serious issue in understanding and being an optimist
The toughest part of every human being is Acceptance and Letting it go.
What? come on i have did that tooooo many times. courtesy tenor
Yes, I can listen to your thoughts that is true. Most people think that they can do this very easily.
But the things which you have in your mind and which I am about to tell both are the exact opposite. We will be very happy to let go of the things which we don’t need seriously and we will accept the notions very happy if the result is in the way as we expected.
But the opposite of that will be very tough for many peoples and for few peoples it is totally impossible
Time presents you with various events in your life. It depends upon the actions which we use in the given point, Success and Failure are a 50-50% possibility of our life.
The possibility of success always will not be on our side. Life is like a harmony in which time presents lots of possibilities for us. Success and Failure both will be there in the time, constantly we cannot keep only either success or failure in our harmony that will be boring. To make that harmony into a masterpiece, we should order both “Failure and Success” in a proper way.
We would have heard many people saying that they are very much depressed because of failure in an exam or I lost in the game. Depression is a big problem that happens to any human being.
But what brings that depression? Is it the failure which we had,
No!!! if we do perfect introspection on our selves it will be certain that unacceptance of the failure brings you the depression. So if the goal is to make a masterpiece of harmony "accept the failure".
Creating life as appealing as harmony is in our hands. Let's accept the failure and enhance the beauty of our days.
Life gives some things to Love and Hate to each and every one of us.
Love and Hate are not just two sides of the emotions, it can also change your perception of things which we see. Our perception will build our lives. It is our perception that can harmonize or dissonance our lives.
Life is Harmony 🙂
Love will harmonize our life and Hate will dissonance our life. The usage of emotional lenses for having perception is so important.
What creates hate?
Disappointment Hate
A disappointment, but failure creates disappointment. Hmmm if we think on this undeviatingly and with due-diligently it is not the failure which creates the hate. It is the way in which we handle the failure, that grows the hatred in our hearts and pollutes our thinking process.
Our life should be like a harmony. To create harmony in our lives let’s tryout together find the best direction to get ourselves in the path where we can transform life into a beautiful harmony of us.
We are people who did things randomly and failed in many ways and succeeded in a few ways. These millennial old years of practice will help us in finding our way to harmony. Let’s apply a process of analysing the situation into practice.
I really want to dedicate this blog to my dad, who dedicated
his entire life for us.
Surprising life can trap you with dwelling darkness, try to drown you in the pool of misery, will take you away from your goals. But he will be there as a Mentor like a light in the darkness, as a Believer like an escape velocity from the forces of misery, as a Motivator who will push you towards your goals.
My Dad is a Hero : )
Yes, As a father everyone has to wear several hats at the moment.
Thanks, dad for being
a motivator
a believer
a mentor
a friend
And a mother
Life is beautiful make it more beautiful by making your loved ones happy. Lets celebrate him on this fathers day who made you what you are
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